To Forgive, Kill….

Things which must die so that we can be a forgiving people include:

  • The idea that those who love me will never hurt me; so those who hurt me, hate me.
  • The idea that I will always be able to avoid hurting others.
  • The idea that people who hurt me are always wrong.
  • The idea that if they do hurt me, they must not love/like me.
  • The idea that anyone who hurts me is against me and is out to get me and must be my enemy.
  • The idea that anyone who hurts me is doing it deliberately (it must be personal).

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